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Strong, But Not Okay: Mental Health in the Lives of Albanian Women

There’s a quiet strength in the women I work with—especially the Albanian women. Many of us grew up learning to keep our heads down, our voices soft, and our pain hidden. We were told to be strong, to sacrifice, to carry the family’s needs before our own. And while these messages were often wrapped in love or survival, they’ve come at a cost to our mental health…

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Suppressing Emotions: The Silent Trauma of Albanian Men

In Albanian culture, strength is often measured by how much pain a man can endure without showing it. From a young age, boys are told “Mos qaj, burrat nuk qajnë” (Don’t cry, men don’t cry). But what happens when pain has nowhere to go? It doesn’t disappear—it turns into something else…

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Common Myths About Therapy in the Albanian Community

Many Albanians believe therapy is only for severe cases, that talking about problems doesn’t help, or that seeking support is a sign of weakness. These beliefs prevent many from getting the help they need. Let’s break down some of the most common myths about therapy…

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